Let’s face it; Christian relationships are fairing no better than anyone else’s these days.  As a single Christian woman, I got sick and tired of hearing so many teach and preach at us about finding a Boaz and being a Proverbs 31 woman.  Rarely are we taught how to avoid the pitfalls that land us in situationships with men who are the complete opposite of an Ephesians 5 man.  Why does it seem that women are held to a higher standard, yet we are encouraged to give all of the grace in the world to men who often mean us no good.  Even in the midst of all I have stated, one thing I know for sure is that GOOD MEN OF CHARACTER DO EXIST!